What Drives Me
A reflection on knowledge, networks, and detachment from money.
Earlier this week, my mentor posed a question that resonated deeply with me: What drives you? This simple query sparked a cascade of thoughts, leading me to reflect on my motivations and where I want to direct my energy in the coming years.
In my family, for the past three generations, education has been the cornerstone of success. It's seen as the primary path to wealth and self-improvement. While that tradition of valuing education continues to guide me, my focus is evolving. As I look ahead, I've decided to hone in on a few key areas over the next five years.
Acquiring Knowledge: The Endless Pursuit
The first and perhaps most crucial of these is the pursuit of knowledge. I've made it a mission to learn something new every day, whether it's related to my current work or a completely different field. This commitment to learning isn't just about staying relevant—it's about becoming a more well-rounded individual with a deep and universal understanding of technology.
A minor ADHD diagnosis has turned out to be more of a boon than a hindrance in this respect. It fuels my curiosity and propels me to explore new things constantly.
Building Networks: Infinite Sum Games
Another area I'm focusing on is building networks—not just any networks, but ones based on genuine friendships and mutual care. I've always believed in creating connections without expecting anything in return. This concept, which I like to call "infinite sum games," is rooted in the idea that relationships built on trust and goodwill are inherently valuable, with no strings attached.
In this game, there's no end, no final tally of who owes what. Instead, the relationships you nurture become a continuous source of support, growth, and opportunity.
Detachment Towards Money: A Byproduct of Knowledge
One of the most profound shifts in my mindset over the past few years has been my detachment towards money. I've come to realize that if you have knowledge, you have the ability to create wealth. Money, in itself, is not the end goal—it's a byproduct of the skills and knowledge you possess.
I fully understand the importance of money; it's a tool that enables us to achieve certain goals and live comfortably. However, I've grown confident in my ability to generate it when needed. If you were to take away all the money I have today, I wouldn't be concerned, because I know how to make it back.
This perspective is well-captured in the Ramayana:
"धनानि भूमौ पश्यसि नष्टनीतानि।"
"Wealth accumulated on earth is seen to be ultimately destroyed."
— Valmiki Ramayana
Creating Something Good: Leaving a Legacy
Lastly, I'm driven by the desire to create something meaningful—something that people will not just use but enjoy and value. Whether it's a product, a service, or even an idea, I want to build something that leaves a positive impact on those who encounter it.
Conclusion
As I embark on this journey, my motivations are clear: to learn continuously, to build meaningful relationships, and to create something that stands the test of time. These pillars guide me as I navigate the complexities of life and work.